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If you are in an ethically non monogamous relationship, you already know that connection looks different for everyone. At OnlineBootyCall, we celebrate that. Our platform is designed with the ethically non monogamous community in mind, creating a judgment free space where honesty, curiosity, and freedom lead the way. Unlike traditional dating sites, we do not ask you to squeeze into a one size fits all model. Whether you are partnered, solo, or somewhere in between, OBC is your place to flirt, explore, and have fun without having to explain your relationship style.

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A Space for Every Kind of Connection

Ethical non-monogamy, often shortened to ENM, is a relationship style where everyone involved agrees that dating and intimacy do not have to be exclusive. It can look different for every person or couple, from open relationships to polyamory to casual flings outside a primary partnership. Some couples are looking for flirty chats and casual hookups with new people. Others enjoy meeting other couples for shared experiences or simply want to explore what feels right in the moment.

Why the ENM Community Loves OBC

Most dating apps are designed for people looking for traditional relationships, which can make non monogamous dating frustrating. OBC has always been different. Our community values honesty and direct communication, so you can be upfront about what you are looking for without the awkward explanations. Members range from adventurous couples trying ENM for the first time to experienced singles who simply prefer a more open approach to dating.

Casual, Low Pressure, and Drama Free

Dating should not feel like a chore, and ENM dating is no different. On OBC, you can chat with singles or couples, plan fun meetups, and see where the night takes you. Some people use OBC to find a casual fling, while others enjoy having a regular connection they can rely on. It is about freedom and choice, without guilt or unnecessary pressure.

Built for Honest, Adventurous Connections

OBC has been connecting like minded singles and couples since 2003, and the ENM community has always been a natural part of our platform. It is a place where you can be open about what you want, meet others who feel the same way, and explore dating in a way that actually fits your life.

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Ravi

Been using OBC since 2018 & purchased a lifetime membership. Best for whatever you're looking for... never let me down.

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Love it. Not pretentious and most members are polite. It can get overwhelming as a woman, but I don't mind the attention.

Nick

I met someone and we've been dating. We see each other a lot, but it's not exclusive yet, so I'm still around. We'll see where it goes.

Jessie

I did find a diamond in the rough, and I like him, so I'll be taking him to go faster than a takeout restaurant. Thanks OBC!

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At OBC we take a casual approach to dating online. Dating should be fun, not serious, that's why OBC has millions of profiles of singles who love to date and connect. With our fun and lighthearted approach, you can meet local singles who enjoy dating and being single all at once, with thousands of members joining daily.

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Whether you want to meet new people, make friends, date occasionally, or enjoy no-pressure dating, OBC is the online dating app for you. OBC is also the perfect dating app for those who are recently divorced, rebounding from a previous relationship, too busy to be in a serious relationship, always on-the-go with traveling, or simple afraid of commitment. It's free, easy to join, and tons of fun!

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